JYu12
Eternal Poster
As I was surfing the net, naisipan ko mag search ng something like best way to get a girl for bed or somehing like just for "it". Lam na natin yan mga gentle guys hahahah anyway I stumbled upon this somewhat answer by an anonymous guy from quora. May point siya and realistic approach niya hahaha and yeah for me, effective mga ganyang galawan. Cred to that anonymous genius for translating into words yung mahiwagang technique. 
To have sex with a girl, you have to seduce her. Not just her body, her mind. With your words. It has to happen in a woman's mind before you get to have her body.
This means:
Now, the physical:
This means:
- Making her feel desired in a sincere way. Don't just spout out the standard "you're hot" crap. Tell her why you want her, specifically. Tell her why it has to be her, not anyone else. You can lie if it's not true, but women always know, so be truthful. How did you notice her? What drew you in? Why are you attracted to her?
- Be specific in telling her the things that would turn you on if she allowed you to do them. If kissing her neck would drive you crazy, tell her. If stroking her thigh does it for you, let her know. Be very descriptive. Share details.
- Don't be vulgar or graphic unless she asks you for "more." This means talking dirty. Some women love it, they'll participate. But for some, it makes them uncomfortable. Feel it out by her reaction to what you're telling her. Start out with very general descriptions. If you say, "I want to run my hands across your stomach, down between your thighs," and you get a positive reaction, continue to describe the scenario. If she stiffens or you sense she's uncomfortable, go back to more innocent scenarios.
Now, the physical:
- It has to build. Please don't go for the "good stuff" right away. The anticipation and excitement are imperative for a successful seduction. Most men forget a woman has plenty of erogenous zones besides the parts HE wants to touch. Earlobes, neck, stomach, behind the knee, back, inner arms, fingers . . . Every woman is different. Find the spots that make HER swoon, and you will gain access to the places that might make YOU swoon.
- Make sure you're somewhere where a woman can feel comfortable. Not where your parents could catch you (unless you are both into that), not where you'll be interrupted. Somewhere safe.
- Confidence is so sexy. When you have successfully got her body and mind primed, it's time. Take your time, don't rush the last part. There is nothing more awkward then a man who has done everything right, gotten me exactly where she needs to be and then, he rushes and fumbles around as if she could change her mind at any second, which, of course, she could. Be confident. It shows her you know exactly what you're doing, even if you don't. Fake it.
- Make sure she has an orgasm. There are plenty of ways this can happen. You can certainly do some research to get some ideas. But, if you can help a woman orgasm, you will be a God, and could guarantee a repeat opportunity. Be a generous lover. Best advice in this answer.
- The seduction doesn't end with your orgasm. If you finish, get right up and get dressed, or suggest we leave, you're just a douche. Be a mensch. Kiss her. Tell her she was incredible. Stroke her lightly and compliment her. You could be setting the stage for a second round, or third or fourth.
- If she wants to leave. Assist her. Make sure she's safe.
- Hopefully, you have a way to contact her. If so, contact her THE NEXT DAY simply saying what a wonderful time you had with her. Whether you want to see her again or not, contact her the next day. That three day rule is crap. Sex is intimate. If you want more than sex or not, be a kind person, a gentleman.
