I also had the same incident Sir way back when I was still 4th year college student tapos nabuntis ko yong girlfriend ko noon. We wasted 20K para mapa-abort ang bata pero at the end, by God's grace and guidance, di pinayagan na mangyari yong abortion. She first confessed to her family nung 5 months na syang preggy, and I went in thier house. Nasa isip ko nun, magpapakalalaki ako at paninindigan ang bata no matter what. Kahit ayaw ng pamilya nya, still, nagpursige pa rin ako. At the end of the day, andyan na e, at buhay ang pinag-uusapan dyan tol. You either lose the baby, the mother or even both of them pag tinuloy nyo ang abortion. Tapos pinakamaganda mong gawin, always think of the positive side nung nangyayari sayo kasi napakalaking tulong nyan sa pag-iisip ninyo kung ano ang gagawin nyong next step ng buhay nyo.